Bob Vance-Phyllis Relationship

"Webster’s Dictionary defines 'wedding' as the fusing of two metals with a hot torch. Well, you know something? I think you guys are two metals. Gold medals."

Phyllis reveals that she is dating Bob Vance in the "Christmas Party" episode of Season 2. She announces their engagement in "Gay Witch Hunt," to which she shows off her ring to Pam, and is congratulated by all in the office. And they get married in Season 3, "Phyllis' Wedding".

After Phyllis' father, Elbert, "upstages" him at the ceremony, Michael jokingly says to Bob, "if you ever lay a finger on Phyllis, I will kill you." Bob follows this up with, "If you ever lay I finger on Phyllis, I’ll kill you," more seriously. During the wedding reception, Michael makes a botched and awkward wedding toast, and it is when swears that Phyllis' nickname in high school was "easy rider," that Bob forces him off the stage and kicks him out of the wedding.

During a deleted scene from "Fun Run," Phyllis is shown teaming up with husband Bob Vance (who is wearing a Vance Refrigeration T-shirt while the other racers wear Dunder Mifflin T-shirts) to pull ahead of Michael in the race. When they are unable to do it together, Phyllis encourages Bob to take care of it himself, screaming, "Go get him, Bobby! Sic him! Sic him!"

In a deleted scene from "Business Ethics," Phyllis says in a talking head that she believes Bob accidently ran over somebody while on a safari in Africa; tearfully, she says it might've been an ostridge, to which she says "an ostridge in a soccer uniform," and they didn't tell the police, also tipping somebody in the air force not to talk about the incident. And in "Crime Aid", Phyllis and Bob attend an auction to raise money after the building they work in was robbed. The final item up for bid was a hug from Phyllis, which caused a three way bidding war between Dwight, Andy and Bob, who wins after bidding a thousand dollars to hug his wife.

In "The Duel," Michael asks Dwight if he's ever had intercourse in the office, with Phyllis nodding her head, implying that she's done it with Bob several times at work.

In "Blood Drive," Phyllis and Bob invite Pam and Jim on a double date; when the two don't return from the bathroom, Pam and Jim are put under the impression that they dined and dashed. They decide to investigate, and hear them having sex in the handicap restroom. Phyllis and Bob later return to the table, sweaty and out of breath, much to the discomfort of Jim and Pam.

In "Cafe Disco," Phyllis decides to join Michael in a dance, and invites Bob as well; however, while trying to get to him, she runs into his new secretary, who awkwardly explains that he's in the middle of an important phone call. Later, after Phyllis injures her back while dancing with Michael, Dwight takes her into the conference room to be treated. While Dwight is doing this, she blurts out that she thinks Bob is going to cheat on her with the secretary, only for her to start laughing right after, and say that when she said it that it sounded so silly out loud. As most of the office joins the downstairs for Michael's cafe disco, Bob and Phyllis dance with everybody.

In "Secret Santa," when Phyllis is made the office Santa much to Michael's dismay (who is also dressed as Santa), she complains to Jim and slightly threatens him by saying, "Don't let me get Bob involved," with Jim asking what that would entail, to which responds by saying that she shouldn't have said anything. Later, after Michael apologizes for much of his rude behavior to Phyllis throughout the duration party, while sitting on her lap, Bob walks in, also dressed as Santa, confused and angered at first, for Phyllis to then explain to Bob that it's not what he thinks. After that, the two Santas begin making out in front of Michael, to which Michael, annoyed, says: "Get a room, Santas."

In "Happy Hour," Phyllis admits to the fact whenever she goes to bars with Bob, she intentionally flirts with other men just to see Bob beat them up, much to the implied shock and disapproval of the people interviewing her, as she says, "What?"

In "Viewing Party," Phyllis explains to Erin that, apparently, the first time they saw each other naked, they stared at each other until they feel asleep, and that it was "magical," much to Erin's clear and general discomfort.

In "Mrs. California," Phyllis offhandedly says: "We have a gym at home. It’s called the bedroom."

In "Roy's Wedding," Bob and Phyllis intensely make out in front of everybody to the song Roy sings and surprises everyone. This makes Jim and Pam, who are sitting next to them, very uncomfortable.

Bob and Phyllis are last seen together in the "Finale" at Dwight and Angela's wedding, happily watching the ceremony unfold.

Status: Married (14 years, 2021)